About Me

I’m a recovering people-pleaser, caregiver, and co-dependent, and. . . if I’m able to curate the life I desire and transform my life with me at the center. . . so can you!

I am a self-development life coach and founder of The Modern Matriarch. I am forever a student of life, learning the lessons of being a spiritual being having a unique set of human experience. . .embracing, accepting, and surrendering to the known, the unknown, and the unseen.

I’ve spent the last two decades consuming and practicing all things self-help in service of healing, surviving, and thriving for myself, my family, and my clients.

I coach, guide, and mentor people like you. . . seekers of transformation searching for clarity, confidence, and courage as they navigate life's complexities.

For years. . . I believed that if I just tried harder, gave more, and went deeper, everything I wanted would magically fall into place. But it didn't. In my quest to serve everyone else, I forgot to prioritize myself. In the process, I was depleting my light and completely ignoring my needs, wants, and desires. And even worse, I didn’t even realize it was happening.

I was missing from my own life!

Today, I live from a place of gratitude, abundance, light, and love. I’ve endured and learned powerful lessons about myself, a spiritual being having a human experience. I arrived where I am through my own personal transformational journey of surviving and thriving through hardships, traumas, abuse, and illnesses.

“Your life will be transformed when you make peace with your shadow. The caterpillar will become a breathtakingly beautiful butterfly. You will no longer have to pretend to be someone you’re not. You will no longer have to prove you’re good enough. When you embrace your shadow you will no longer have to life in fear. Find the gifts of your shadow and you will finally revel in all the glory of your true self. Then you will have the freedom to create the life you have always desired.” — Debbie Ford

🧡 Struggles as an Asian Immigrant
❤️ Demands of motherhood
💜 Negative self-talk & body image
💚 Physical, sexual & emotional abuse
💙 Chronic physical & mental illness
💛 Painful unraveling of a 20-year marriage

I thought I was being spiritual by constantly looking for the silver lining, but I was actually using spirituality as a way to avoid facing the truth of my human existence. It took a radical and painful wake-up call to realize that true spirituality isn't about bypassing our humanity but embracing it fully.

It all begins with your willingness to take the first powerful step!
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